What’s in the way of you being a consciously masterful lover
- nastasiaanjoli
- May 7, 2023
- 2 min read
𝟭. Not embodying your heart and feeling into theirs when you touch each-others bodies.
Even if this is your first encounter together, you don’t have to be “in love” to embody your heart and open yourself to the experience of love.
A woman cannot fully open herself if she bypasses her heart. Just as a man needs to feel safe in order to access his.
2. Focusing on techniques instead of allowing their body to direct you.
So many of us resort to our usual tricks to get our lovers off instead of paying attention to the energy that is present and being open for what else is available to us.
It is said that the greatest lovers are the ones that touch their lovers as if this is the first time.
3. Being in your head.
This takes you away from the present moment.
many of us fuck with our heads.. which is not where our sx belongs. Our heads are where performance lives and pleasure dies
4. Not seeing the sacredness, the God/Goddess within ourselves and them.
We are all sacred beings, it’s just that we have forgotten this along the way. Tapping into our own divinity and that of your lover brings the sacredness back into your bedroom.
Even the kinkiest acts can feel holy as long as you treat your lover that way.
5. Not paying attention to how something feels, before-during-after
The time leading up to an encounter is delicious and sweet.
And sometimes the after feels bitter
And empty. Where you are left asking yourself.. “why did I do that?”
Ignoring the signs that something isn’t in alignment with you, invites shame and distortion.
If you don’t pay attention to this, the body will make sure you do at some point.
Sx belongs in the sacral chakra which is where our creativity lives. Making love is true artistry. Your lover is the canvas, your fingers are the paint,
What beautiful creations can you make together?
What feelings stir within you when you bow before your lover as a sacred work of art?
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